You have so much to deal with in life, that sometimes, you feel that enough, is enough. Be strong, to take on new experiences. Life can be challenging, when you get older, you feel love, hurt and pain, happiness and sadness.
If you are in a relationship, it can either fail or be successful, but, that is also one of your new issues for you. Every day, one has to face up to something new. Getting around in the world of today, is not easy, lots to learn and know. Try to be with trust-able people and then you would be able to accept and move on.
Whatever happens in your life, it's never planned, in most times, it is something you probably never dreamed off.
In some cases, this can make people feel good or not so good. One can't always be , predictable, but, you can learn more out of life, than feel sorry for yourself, because you didn't succeed.
A healthy life is to be happy, stress- free and a positive person, think of the good things in life. Be able to ignore the bad comments, or insults, that you may hear while with family or friends. Sometimes people are just plain awful, when they try to spoil your evening, with a conversation, uncalled for.
A person that often brings up the past, is someone, that is holding on to something, that could never be the same again, or is just hanging on to past memories and hasn't moved on, and hasn't accepted life, the way it is at present.